Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Two Week Check-up

Abby turned two weeks old yesterday. We spent most of our morning at the doctor's office and the hospital lab (again). Of course, our little girl was doing just fine and her labs for jaundice came back normal!!! So now it is official - our daughter's tanned tone is her natural skin, not the jaundice. I'm sure Abby will appreciate her "Hodges" skin as she gets older. Our only concern is Abby's gas problem, which has been making her uncomfortable. We are hoping that it was just something I ate so that it will go away quickly.

Abby and Maize are still doing great together. Maize has been keeping her distance for the most part, but does sneak in and give Abby a few kisses every once in a while. Abby seems to be okay with the friendly dog kisses, so we are pretty happy with how things are going. We had been a little nervous about Maize getting jealous, but besides some whining, Maize has been a real sport about the changes.

Abby weighed in at 8 pounds 14 ounces yesterday - a gain of 10 ounces in one week. Apparently she has been eating quite well. She is filling out a bit and can almost fit into all the cute 0-3 month sized clothes she has. We are really excited to take her out to graduation on Friday and today she will be making her first trip to Grandma Lorraine's house. We are very lucky to have a great traveler :)

Monday, April 28, 2008

Back Home

We are back at home for the next few days and enjoying the familiar surroundings. Maize and Abby continue to do really well together (beyond the few dog kisses, which Abby doesn't seem to mind at all). We all sleep better in our own beds, so we've felt much better today than we had for the last few days.

Abby took her first trip to Ann Arbor today and got to visit the dental school and our dental school friends Brad and Lori Randall and their new baby Jeffrey (and big brother David). We had a great time visiting with friends and getting out for a few hours. Abby also had her first grocery shopping experience, but she slept through the entire trip to Meijer's, so I don't think she'll remember any of it.

Tomorrow is Abby's two week checkup at the doctor's office. The last two weeks have certainly flown by. She is starting to respond to us, smile when she is awake, and is eating tons since Sunday. We are having a lot of fun watching our little girl change each day.

Saturday, April 26, 2008

Photo Diary - Meeting Family

Abby got to meet her great grandma Joyce Obreiter today. We took a picture with the four generations of Obreiters.

















Abby also met Uncle Nate and his friend Courtney (along with the rest of the Hodges clan.







We also took our first complete family photo (Maize included).

Visiting Grandmas

Abby is half way through her first trip to visit all of her grandmas. So far we've had a fun, but eventful stay. Steve and I managed to remember all of Abby's things when we were packing up the car, but in the mad rush to get everything in before my appointment, we missed packing my bag. Luckily, Mom and I are roughly the same shirt size and I had put extra pants into one of Steve's bags. So, with a little shopping I was able to make sure I had clean clothes for the weekend too.

Abby smiled at us for the first time while she was alert on Friday (10 days old). I was telling her about her fingers, chin, lips, and nose and apparently the word fingers is funny to her because she just started smiling when I said it. She is getting to be pretty interactive when she is awake (which isn't often ~ she loves sleeping). Steve and I are SO fortunate to have a very content and happy baby. Between the two of us we can only recall about 3 or 4 incidents of real crying in the last 11 days, and most of those were related to outside factors, like needle sticks.

Well... we started typing this because Miss Abigail wanted to be wide awake after she had her 5 am bottle, but the click of the typing has put her to sleep, so I am going to take advantage of the opportunity to sleep for an hour or two more as well. We will add pictures from Abby's adventures when we are home next Monday. Until then take care :-)

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

1 Week Old!!!

Today Miss Abby is 1 week old! And what an eventful week it has been. It hardly seems like it was 7 days ago that we were in that operating room welcoming Abigail ~ it seems like she's always been a part of this family. We are so thankful for God's gift to us in our daughter and for the fact that she seems to be one of the world's most content and fuss-free babies.

So... on to the recent developments. On Monday (yesterday) we were cleared to stop using the the bili-light on Abby, so we were finally able to unplug her and enjoy some real snuggling, along with a short walk to the mailbox, a trip to Jen's old office to show off Abby, and a stop at Walmart and Kohl's to pick up some necessities. Abby has already used up all of the newborn diapers that we had stocked for her (since we thought she was going to be a big girl we had only purchased a few newborn size upfront and had lots and lots of size 1). We also needed some newborn sized pants, since the size 0 to 3 months pants come all the way up to her armpits.

We visited the doctor today and Abby had regained all her birth weight and was looking great. She is eating and filling diapers like a champ. And... we even got 3 hours of sleep in a row last night. Needless to say, we are all feeling much better. So much better that we are going on our first visit to the Grandmas houses this weekend. I'm sure Grandma Mary and Grandma Yvonne (and the Grandpas too) can't wait for Abby's first visit.

Sunday, April 20, 2008

Under the Lights

Abby is spending another day under the light to see if we can get past this bout of jaundice. Her number hadn't come down at all from yesterday, so it's another day (and night) of phototherapy for us. She is looking much better, eating more, making more diapers, and being alert more often, which are all good signs.

The beautiful afghan that Arlene Shock (who Jen worked with at Washtenaw County) made for Abby - you can see the light coming through the holes in it.

Saturday, April 19, 2008

Four Days Old on Day Five

Unfortunately for Abby, day 5 of being a big girl required a trip to the hospital lab, even though she was discharged yesterday. Our little gal has a bit of jaundice and is undergoing phototherapy (where they use special lights to break down the offending bilirubin in the cells). She started using her biliblanket yesterday afternoon and we have been faithfully switching it from her belly to her back every hour on the hour (which made for a very, very long night). So... this morning we got ready and went for our trip to the lab, where we had to let the nurses poke poor Abby's heel to get a blood sample. Fortunately, her levels are on the way down and she will hopefully be done with the light therapy sometime tomorrow.

On the bright side, the therapy is working and Abby is getting much more active and looking much less yellow. Last night she had her first sustained period of playfulness, which was a relief to us. She spent the time from 1 am to 2:30 am kicking and waving her arms and responding to us, which was really neat, even though we were both exhausted and wishing she would just go to sleep so we could catch a few hours of much needed rest. She's also been eating (albeit from a bottle) a lot more and making the messy diapers that come with eating more. All good signs that she will be over the jaundice soon.

Since Abby is on the light pad 24 hours a day, I have been housebound, and mostly stuck in a chair holding her to make sure the light pad stays on her little belly. For those of you who know me well, you know this is making me stir crazy, but she is well worth it. Steve had his first adventure of grocery shopping on his own. I made a list, but I know where everything is at the store and he had to do a little hunting, so it took longer than he thought it would. We do have everything that was on the list, so that was good.

We are back to the lab tomorrow for more blood testing and hopefully good news that we will be off the phototherapy.

Our Little "Peanut"


While we were sitting at the hospital the other day with not much to do besides watch daytime t.v., which gets old really fast, we started really studying our little girl. At that point I told Steve I was sure there was a character from the peanuts that had round cheeks and spiky black hair. Sure enough, we found him. While Abby is certainly not a boy, she does have a resemblance to Shermy, the boy who always has to be a sheperd in the Charlie Brown Christmas movie. Now watching that movie will always give Steve and I a little chuckle.

Friday, April 18, 2008

Day 4 - Going Home

Abby and I were discharged from the hospital this afternoon and Steve, Abby, and I made it home at 1 pm today to start the adventure of life with baby. Abby seems to like her new digs, including the bassinet. She's been too sleepy to check out much beyond that and the couch.

Abby has some mild jaundice, so even though they sent us home, Abby has to be on an ultra-violet light pad as much of the day as possible. She doesn't seem to mind when she has to lay on it to get the light on her back, but it is a trick to keep it on her belly, since she does like to wiggle her little arms.

Abby had some firsts today. Since she is very sleepy from the jaundice, we've had to pump milk for her and give it to her by bottle. She really loved the bottle, so we are hoping that we will be able to transition back to breastfeeding when the jaundice is passed without too much struggle. Since Abby has been chugging down the bottles, we also experienced the first throw up. She got me good, and herself, and the arm chair, and the area rug. It was quite the mess - and my white sweater may never be the same.

3 and 4 Days Old - A Photo Diary








Thursday, April 17, 2008

Being Alive - Day 3

Abby has started day 3 of being alive like a champ. Last night she decided that sleeping three hours a stretch would be a good idea and Steve and I certainly agreed with her. We did have to cheat a little and let her suck on her pacifier to get her to quiet down after being fed, but she doesn't seem to have any confusion when it comes to eating, so we aren't worried that her pacifier time will affect breastfeeding.

Abby got a good report again today from the pediatrician who is going to be checking on her during our last few weeks in Tecumseh. She is a little jaundiced, but he said overall she is doing great. She's been sleeping a lot during the day and being awake a little too much at night, so
today we are going to try to reverse that by keeping her a little more stimulated during the day.

And... we have been cleared to go home tomorrow, so we will be enjoying a nice long shower and sleeping in a nice king sized bed soon. I'm sure Abby will like her real bassinet, which belonged to her Grandpa Hodges and his siblings too, much better than the hospital "fish bowl."

Enjoy more of Steve's first foray into photography - he's doing great in all of his new roles.
The infamous pacifier
This is 3 am-ish right after the really long day of labor and delivery. I was so exhausted I could hardly keep my eyes open.
Our little girl has lots and lots of dark hair - we were thinking we may be able to pass her off as a Chippewa tribe member when Steve starts his new job in June.

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Happy Birth Day Abigail Grace

Abigail Grace made her big appearance via emergency c-section at 12:44 am on Tax Day, Tuesday April 15. I had started having contractions Sunday morning around 9 am and went to the hospital Sunday night around 6:30 pm. Even though Abby was only 8 pounds (even) she wasn't going to make it out the old fashion way, so after over 30 hours of labor we were the cause of the midnight calls to all of the surgical staff at the hospital. They were all good sports about it and all seemed to be wide awake.

Abby clocked in at 8 lbs. 0 oz. and is 22 inches long (no wonder they thought she would be big - the girl is all legs). She has tons of almost black hair and has been a very content baby so far. We are all doing well and adjusting to our new schedules. Enjoy the photos. (and yes... for the observant, this post is back-dated. It is currently 5 pm on April 16th and Steve and Abby are rocking so I can check my email and update Abby's fans).

Sunday, April 13, 2008

Insomnia

Well... it is currently 5:27 am on Sunday, April 13th and I have been awake for about 2 hours. Got to love pregnancy related insomnia. Sparky and I are catching up on the news we missed over night (thanks to FoxNews) and uploading things onto Steve's iPod. I'm sure this is meant to prepare me for the many sleepless nights ahead, but I can't help but thinking this is silly, since extra sleep at this stage of the pregnancy would seem to be a good thing. Oh well... by the time I need to start getting ready for church the iPod should have at least 400 tracks from my old cd's ready to be added and I should be very well informed.

Happy Sunday :)

Saturday, April 12, 2008

Operation Eviction

I have been having contractions off and on since Tuesday, so yesterday we decided to see if we could help Sparky move things along. We started off with a pep talk (the crazy yoga website said we needed to let her know that we were ready for her to arrive but that we knew it was her decision - yeah... right...). We then filled our day with lots of spicy food, walking, and other activities that we thought may be useful in the eviction process. And, by the end of the day, I was having regular contractions at 10 minutes apart. But then again, our child has been obstinate this entire pregnancy, so when we decided to get some rest just in case, the contractions went away. Back to the drawing board for today.

Unfortunately it is going to be cold and rainy today, so the walking part may be difficult. Yesterday's brief window of 74 and sunny was perfect. Knowing this child she is going to hold off until tax day - it just seems like a day when an attorney and dentist should have a child, doesn't it???

Wishing you good luck in your endeavors today and hoping that you will pray for a quick delivery (and soon) for this baby, before we all go crazy (or my belly splits in half).

Maize Week Update


Maize week has made the poor little hound so tired that we were able to "mess" with her at night. On Tuesday night, after a very long walk and a day of playing fetch, we tried out the gym socks on the ears trick, which we had never been able to do without getting a little nip before.

Today is the end of Maize week, so its back to her regular dog's life until Sparky is born. After that the poor hound is in for a a shock.

Thursday, April 10, 2008

The Midweek Update

Apparently the doctor thought things were moving along well enough on their own, so no induction for us this week. I will be working very hard in the next few days to get this baby moving out. On the bright side it means I may not have to spend the entire labor and delivery process hooked up to an IV (I have a HUGE needle phobia), so it's not all bad. I've also been having lots of contractions if I am walking or moving around a lot, so hopefully that is a good sign.

Maize is still enjoying Maize week and we've made it to Steve's big dinner event, so after Steve sees his last patient this afternoon our schedules are clear for a baby. Any prayers for a quick delivery in the next few days would be greatly appreciated by all of us.

Best to you all today!

Monday, April 7, 2008

Week 38 - "Maize Week"
























It's week 38 of being pregnant - hopefully we are very near the end of this journey. I've basically reached the stage where there is no possible way to be comfortable and where sleeping is nearly impossible. Last night I was up every hour on the hour to either use the bathroom or stretch the charlie horses out of my legs. It makes for a very long night.

We decided this week was going to be "Maize Week", where we do the things that Maize likes to do since the rest of her life she will have to be a normal dog instead of a spoiled rotten "human" dog. We've been doing lots of walks in the park and around the neighborhood and fetch and sleeping on the couch. Today it was in the low 70's (a great change in our Michigan weather), so Maize and I spent a couple hours outside - I read and she slept on her dog bed which we took outside for the afternoon.

We have all of the baby gear clean and ready to go - hopefully the doctor will decide that Sparky is done incubating and will evict her at the end of the week. We'd like to make it at least through Thursday so we can enjoy some end of dental school festivities before our addition makes us homebound for a few weeks.

Thursday, April 3, 2008

Home Alone Day 2 - The Afghan is Almost Done

Maize and I have just about wrapped up day two of being home alone. I didn't sleep well last night (mostly because a very odd basset hound is having her own pregnancy problems, including frequent use of the outdoor facilities and throwing up and restless sleeping). So... because Maize didn't let me get very comfortable last night and because I never sleep well alone anymore, I am basically wiped out. I spent most of today working on Sparky's afghan - I am so close to being done. All I have left to do is 1/4 of the edge, which I am making scalloped. Steve told me I am not allowed to finish it tonight, just in case finishing the afghan results in eviction of the baby.

Steve's conference went well today and he is relaxing and getting ready to fly home tomorrow. He had a few questions about his poster and research and was able to sit through some presentations. And, luckily Sparky and I gave him nothing major to worry about.

So tomorrow... Steve will be home around 3 or 4 pm. By then Maize and I should have the afghan done and ready to wash before the big day. So we've survived (basically) our home alone stints. Now we just have to figure out when and/or how to evict this big baby.

Wednesday, April 2, 2008

Being Home Alone - Day 1

Steve left for Dallas today at 1 pm, so I am home alone until Friday afternoon and hoping that it continues to be just Maize and I here at home until Steve is back. Today I spent the afternoon with Grandma and Grandpa Hodges, who just got back from Florida and are on their way to Israel and Jordan tomorrow. We had a good time visiting and watching the Tigers lose another baseball game.

So far so good... we will see how tonight and tomorrow go, but I am planning on keeping pretty quiet so that I don't do anything that may assist Sparky in making her appearance.